Welcome to The Alternative Lifestyle
A Community for Every Walk of the Lifestyle
Where everyone comes together
Kinksters & Swingers from all Walks of Life
Community Events, Resorts, Cruises & More
Meet, Play, Find Your Perfect Matches and Play Friends

Stores n More

Sexy toys, clothing and so much more


Sex Stories & Education

Articles to cover every walk of the lifestyle

Blogs & Education

Find your Ideal Sex Partner(s)

Search, Meet play with your ideal matches

Meet Your Match


Not Just Another Website

See why our Alternative Lifestyle Community (thealtstyle) is different from all the other websites. We bring you together in a community setting offering lot's of real events, real connections, real community values and real "play" environments. Get to know each other on every level not just like a dating website. We cater to everything for those that like the spicy life.

Chosing the Lifestyle That Fits You

The Alt Life brings together all the different dynamics of our  community like swingers, kinksters, BDSM, Poly, Bi-sexual, Trans and all other walks of life that like to cross boundaries, mingle and play. We realize many like to fuse their kinks and people so why not have it all in one easy community.


We have set up many playing fields so you can learn, grow and explore both educationally and sexually in a safe and discrete environments while exploring your sexual desires. Each area is set up for your level of comfort so you can diversify as your mood and experience does.

What's different about The Alt Style


For a limited time we are offering the first 1,000 members a SPECIAL PRICE FOR LIFETIME MEMBERSHIP for Joining Now! So, bring your Sexy wants and desires inside where the party never stops and the possibilities are boundless.  so why delay – JOIN TODAY and watch your erotic fantasies awaken sensual desires deep in your soul.

Creating a AltStyle Membership is stress-free. Once created, you’ll have access to other Lifestyle Members Profiles, Parties, Images, Groups, Communities and more.

JOIN NOW and take advantage of our who’s online, dating, instant messenger, videos, club events/parties and search features that assist you in finding couples and singles ready to meet now!

Find the best lifestyle clubs and parties wherever you go. As an ALS member you are included in exclusive deals and discounts only available within the Alt Style Premium Member Sections. Why wait, take advantage of our FREE LIFETIME MEMBERSHIP TODAY and start fulfilling your exotic fantasies.


Become one of our first thousand and get lifetime membership for a one off payment